女子與小人 Woman and little man

女人向來小氣,古人把女人與小人並列,亦有坊間小語:『寧得罪君子,莫得罪小人。』

君子可欺以方,他的學養與修為都對他自己有約束力,可是,小人得志與否,都無法估量他的行為處事。不過,既得為君子,亦不能與小人計較了。


『我每逢與女人共事,總是吃虧的,所以很怕女人當上司。』
"I do not like to work with a female boss."

『哎呀,你沒有見過而已,有時男人更討厭,更可怕。』
"Sometimes, a male boss is very terrible too."

『當然囉,男人而心眼淺,行事為人如女子,豈不成了太監?』
"Of course, if a man works and presents as a little woman....."

其實無論男人抑或女人,大人物抑或是小人物,最要緊的還是要有好的品德修養,才能立於不敗之地。這才是做人的真正意義和價值觀。
Whoever a man or woman, big boss or little one, the most important is he/she should have best morale, then, he/she could be success. This is the real and worth in our life.

金錢,地位,財富,名譽,權柄,自然會接踵而來。
If you are well educated and good, money, place, wealth, honour and power will be come.

但求無愧於心而已矣。
No regret in our deep heart.

這才是中國人講究的養生之道。
This is the chinese philosophy.