是非 Yes or No!

「做人,包括了做好人與做壞人。」
"As an human being, you could be the good one and the bad one."

「你的是,是他人的非;你的非,是他人的是。」
"Your right, may be the other's wrong;your wrong, could be the other' right."

每個人都有自己的思想感情,都有自己認為對的主意,都想按照自己的主意去決定自己想做的事情,所以,行事請奠強加人意,以自己的想法強迫別人接受。須知天下萬物,皆有定素,冥冥中,自有主宰,一切都是天意,人力不一定勝天,我們的角色都是非常渺少的。
Everybody could have his/her own feeling and emotion, and his/her own ideas. They all want to do what they intent and make their own decison. Therefore, please do not try to put our own ideas on top of their's, to persude theirs to accept our own ideas. We should know that, all things are holding in the hand God. We are so small and little. God know what he want to do the right things.

盡人事,聽天命,天命不可為也。
Try our best, let him do.

只要曾經努力過,一切都不必強求。
If we have try our best, don't push or request.